How do lesbians 'do it'? Seriously. A grown ass woman asked that. What the fuck is wrong with people? Is it because you have that one token lesson friend you think it is OK to ask such personal questions? If I asked a question like that of you, would you not be brutally embarrassed? Would you not be offended? What is it about my sexuality that makes you feel like that is okay to ask? I beg an answer from that one.